Sex with Free Women

[marika denja]

"An unowned girl, a free woman, thus, can never experience her full sexuality" Passion, it is thought, deprives the free woman to some extent of her freedom and important self-control; it is frowned upon because it makes her behave, to some extent, like a degraded female slave; free women, thus, to protect their honor and dignity, their freedom and personhood, their individuality, must fight passion " the free woman must remain cool and in control of herself, even in the arms of her companion, to avoid being truly 'had'" (Tribesman of Gor, p.17)

How does this apply to your experiences?

[Leah]

You need an option that says "other" or "different depending on the woman."

[Mynerva]

"An unowned girl, a free woman, thus, can never experience her full sexuality" Passion, it is thought, deprives the free woman to some extent of her freedom and important self-control; it is frowned upon because it makes her behave, to some extent, like a degraded female slave; free women, thus, to protect their honor and dignity, their freedom and personhood, their individuality, must fight passion " the free woman must remain cool and in control of herself, even in the arms of her companion, to avoid being truly 'had'" (Tribesman of Gor, p.17)

How does this apply to your experiences?

A free woman might not have the same sexual experience as a slave - but that does not mean she cannot have any good and meaningful sexual experiences. Yes, she might not have some mind blowing slave orgasm every time she has sex - but that does not mean she cannot have one at all. I believe a free woman can have a sexual life with her companion, a lover, or even a male slave she enjoys and that is still different from the sexual feelings of a slave.

In rp - I find the sexuality of a fw more interesting to explore and to play out than the sexuality of a slave. It is more complicated, more complex - and can be played out in so many different ways.

[Jara]

*would ask* what's a 'bond' as last I checked those live in the north and north alone,. so why compare a southern free women to that seeing free women are not of the north so to speak. Least not in the way you described one to be. So it being like sex with a bond would be rather out of place to state, nor a comparison to make. Now if it would be same as a Kajira, that we can agree on seeing a free women if born to Gor, also was tough the slave ways in case she finds a collar, alike serving and pleasing in the bed. Though not on a level as a pleasure slave obviously.

[Sasi]

With the right man, there is no frigid woman....

[Syndel]

I believe the somewhat demure and shy element of the free woman makes it more for an interesting experience than the all-naked-yes-yes-let's-do-it from a slave, which is a more predictable and, therefore, boring/repetitive performance.

[Rob]

With the right man, there is no frigid woman....

Nonsense, frigidity is not something that can be cured just by the "right" man.

[Aphris]

With the right man, there is no frigid woman....

Nonsense, frigidity is not something that can be cured just by the "right" man.

According to John Norman it could be cured. Example the frigid woman in Bloodbrothers, the magic fingers of SuperTarl made her drip.

[Sasi]

With the right man, there is no frigid woman....

Nonsense, frigidity is not something that can be cured just by the "right" man.

Believe me, yes... Frigidity is not a disease, it's a mental block.

[Ghost]

One thing that gets me is this, when a free woman has previously been enslaved, (and not even the filpflop style either) why would she not retain her understanding of what it was to be wholly female. After all JN repeatedly shows that inside every woman is a duality.
I have had slaves tell a FC of mine that they (the man) must enjoy them(said slave) more. Collar removal induced amnesia? Norman created collar induced nymphomania, so who knows, but it doesn't sit well with me. I never was good at unlearning.