Yea..I kinda just play it as it goes, for instance I was doing a group with a bunch of heroics before and we were greeding all the loot, and they were getting every single thing, finally on the last boss these awesome goggles come up and I was like screw it im needing them for andronikus, and I did and they were all whiney about it and I was like whatever and blew em off as we'd finished the heroics and disbanded any ways. The bottom line if there's something you want, go ahead and need it, don't worry so much about being all prim and proper. Now that said yea don't go needing every single item you see, that is just a bit of a jackass move but if there is something you want need it, if they really want it, they can need it as well. I have to laugh because I was running the esseles flash point for republics after they leave there first ship on my commando the other night, and the guy in my group was being a major lame ass, demanding I space bar through everything any time I let the story play out some, so I did just because it was easier to do that then listen to him bitch and moan, any ways I got my revenge, every single piece of loot that came up, I would let him select need or greed first, and then would pick the same option as he did....yea I cleared that place out and pulled every piece of loot, he was raging mad at the end. And of course the other night on my bounty hunter someone was going off at me because I won the greed roll for some nifty orange light saber and planned to send it to my alt later on, I just told him to bite me and go blow a light saber he shut up after that. Generally I pass on something if I don't need it, or will just greed roll for it, as for worrying about trying to appease everyone else, I wouldn't bother, you'll never be able to, just play your game and have your fun and look out for like minded invidividuals to group up with and play with.