The first time I visited a Gor sim, was because someone told me that there was even a chance to be killed in SL. So with all the nasty as slaves, Masters and cruel intentions in mind, my first visit took me completely by surprise. This friend told me that Gor might be the place for me to be in and introduced me to, my all time favorite kajira Belladonna. She and I got talking and she told me that if I wanted to explore Gor, I might best start as this ignorant barbarian kajira.
I did with Kar and it has been a rollorcoaster ride for me. I was blessed to have some of the most amazing people in my immediate surroundings, like Ari, Belladonna, Byron and Severus. They showed me the first things of basic roleplay and Gor. They were patient with my unexperience with the theme and roleplay.
So ... no thoughts or desires about exploring my submissiveness, meet some cool bloke to sweep me off my feet, but simply to start and explore Roleplay and Gor.
The reason I remain might be a different matter ... but I guess I will bee seeing that poll pretty quick.